Not For Women Only!

This blog is dedicated to helping young men understand that chasing women causes them to run to other way. A real man, in my opinion, does not need to chase women because he attracts them. It amazes me how in my younger days, I never understood how my sense of humor, aloofness, confidence, mysteriousness and laissez faire attitude was responsible for attracting so many women.

I did not know what was attracting women to me because I was a naturally confident, comedic, free spirit, which does attract women, but really did not understand women at all.

A friend of mine recently labeled me a natural smart ass.

I had to agree and with a cute sexy grin to go with it. Of course, if I had to choose I would rather be a smart, rather than dumb ass.

So, I am sure many women will assume from the title of this blog that I am a self centered, self serving, ego maniac. Frankly, I don't care what they think, but hope to reach young men who are trying to figure out who they are as men, and share my perspective on what women truly want in a man.

And in a classical, yet modern form a man should be a protector and provider rather than an abuser and user of women.

Whether that be as a brother, son, lover, friend, and ultimately as a husband and provider/protector.

I will give a hint at where I am going with this: What women say they want is not necessarily what they feel.

I am hearing many women speak of the objective of feminism was not only to empower and liberate women, but also to help men be more understanding and
sensitive to the needs of women.

But it seems to have backfired as men became more sensitive and understanding and attempted to please women, the women seem to be not only disinterested and even hostile toward men, but outright disgusted and disrespectful.

Now I don't blame the women for this, because they know what they want is a real man.

I blame the men, but also have to admit that like me in my younger days, most men today are completely unaware of what attracts women to a man.