This is something my friends, family, and even coach have told me for years, and I always wanted to listen but never did. Hopeless romantics and guys who are just so ready for the real deal will agree that the idea of spreading your intense, lustful emotions even thinner by divvying them out to more than one girl at a time seems exhausting and impossible.
But I’m here to tell you that it’s not! In fact, it’s invigorating and very doable. When pickings seem so slim and you feel (what seems like) a very real connection with someone, it’s human nature to want to dive in head, feet, and whole body first. Hell, you’ll even belly flop it.
However, for as many times as you’ve taken this all-in approach, has it worked out well? The idea behind dating more than one girl at once is to keep your options open, not be so available and, most importantly, buy yourself time to figure out which girl is truly worthy of all the attention you’re ready and willing to give.
More than that, it’s giving so-so first dates the chance to turn into an amazing second, third, and fourth dates. Or, on the flip side, giving amazing first dates the chance to show their true colors on a so-so second date, bad third date, and downright nightmarish fourth date.
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