How To Be The Man With A Plan And Take The Lead!

Recently I read where church leaders were dismayed that 50% of marriages today ended in divorce whether the marriage was Christian or secular. Call it religious pride, or whatever you like, but church leaders were not happy that religion did not give Christians any advantage in staying married after taking a vow of "till death do us part" But I am not surprised because religion alone will not alter, correct or balance a basic natural law.

For over fifty years since the feminist movement kicked in, too many young men have grown up without a father in the house, and without a strong masculine leader, such as a father figure as an example, young men today need guidance in the new millennium to attract women and then succeed in maintaining the attraction to keep the home fires burning. 

Today I want to talk to you about how to get the girl you want into bed! And before you jump to conclusions, that this is about some pick up artist techniques or just sex, let me make one thing perfectly clear: it is about being fulfilled, satisfied, healthy, happy, and in control of a relationship that not only involves a man and a woman, but is also God's plan and is very important for future generations of children who need a mother and a father as a complete family unit to fulfil God's plan of multiplication.

Whether it's your first date with a girl or you want to rekindle the spark with a woman you've been with for years, here's a few tips to create an irresistible attraction in her for you tonight. And religion has led us to believe this is somehow wrong? OML!

1. Be The Man With A Plan!

Girls LOVE a guy who takes charge... and this starts from the moment you ask her out! 

Don't ask her what she wants to do or what restaurant she wants to go to. Just tell her you're gonna grab a bite somewhere and that you have the perfect spot in mind... 

then tell her how to dress.

"Wear something sexy, cocktail style" or "dress casual, but look hot for me."

When you get there, you pick the table, then tell her to TRUST YOU and you do the ordering! Then order a bottle of wine and a few things to share.

OMG, it is sooo hot when a man takes charge like this!

More importantly, this sets the stage that YOU are the leader! 

This way she gets used to following your lead and doing what you want =)

2. Give A Reason

Listen dude... 

your girl WANTS to go back to your place and get naughty with you... 

but you can't say that or she will feel like a bad girl! 

Instead, come up with a reason that makes it look natural
to go back to your place. 

During dinner, mention a funny video on youtube, then say you'll have to show it to her later. Or maybe tell her you want to show her one of my videos! 

haha, jussssst kidding ;) 

But seriously, if you mention you have something to show her, 

even though it's OBVIOUS why you want her to come to your place, 

at least now she has an excuse! 

Cavemen have been doing this for years by asking women to come back to see their etchings on the cave walls and it still works today! hehe

3. Lead Her There!

Now that she knows you're in charge and is accustomed to following your lead, 

it's time to lead her back to your place!

First of all, make sure the dinner spot is near your house for easy access. Then, as you are walking out of the restaurant, say, "I'm having fun with you, let's continue this. I don't live too far from here... come by for a quick drink and I'll show you that youtube video, then I'll take you home."

The part about the "quick drink" AND letting her know that you'll take her home is VERY IMPORTANT! 

If she raises an objection that she just met you and is unsure if there is another girl in your life, tell her: "Yes and in ten years she will be calling you mommy!."

Even if she might decide to stay awhile for some fun, because she cannot resist getting to know you in a deep and meaningful way, she doesn't want to commit to it just yet, and if she thinks you are pressuring her that's a BAD THING!

So be cool! Suggest a quick drink at your place in a casual tone. Don't make a big deal about it, and don't freak out if she says no. But if there is one thing I know about girls... the fact that you are spontaneous, cool, casual, and in charge will make her want to say YES!  

Sooo stud muffin... now that you have this HOT little girly at your place... what do you do from there?

I'm glad you asked ;)

Now that you've made all of the right moves on your first date, she is probably HOT with anticipation and excited about doing more with you...

This is a CRUCIAL point in your relationship! If you handle things smoothly - turn her on, make your move, and then rock her world in the bedroom - she'll want to be with you ALL THE TIME!

But if you make a wrong move it could quickly turn a fun time into an awkward moment... and you might not get a second date. If this technique attracted her to in the first place don't stop being cocky, comedic, mysterious, taking the lead and having a plan!  

And if you are married with children, you might be wondering what does this have to do with you? Well, if this technique worked to attract her in the beginning, I suggest you consider that maintaining attraction requires you being a man with a plan and in control of yourself and being the provider, protector, and professor of your love for her. But the predictability of married life with children is complicated and can get boring and monotonous, I suggest you be unpredictable, mysterious, confident, comedic, cocky, know what you want and stop asking for it and just take it! Like coming in from grocery shopping and the kids are not around, so you do it right there in the kitchen or the living room before unloading all the groceries. Have a plan and be the leader.

Or dad when you come home from work and mom and the kids are already there and the kids run up and are hanging off of you, you tell them; "Wait!" and you walk over to their mother, and kiss and hug her, telling her you love her, and allow the kids to watch a man love and cherish his wife. 

It is important for children to see this, but also to know that their mother is more important to him than they are because if you have children, whether you are a man or a woman, your life is over. You now can take the lead and plan to live for your children, and you have never had so much fun in your life. 

But more important is for a man to plan to be there for his wife and his children even if the children are married and on their own, and take his place as the priest and king in his household because it is the natural law and order of God's plan for a man, a woman, and children to be together as a family.